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Does this girl likes me? Is she really into me? Can I ask her out now? How can I be sure that this girl willsay yes? This girl is seducing me? Or is it just me day dreaming?
Questions that lingers in your mind when you focus on one girl. Right? I’m a guy. These questions is all up in my mind every time a girl I like responded to me (for example, she said ‘hi’ back) Im pretty sure most guys are guilty of that.
Well, I still remember back in school, I had these questions in my head every time I met a new girl I like (I like a lot of girls back in school.Okay,blame it on my hormones). It gave me some sort of ‘adrenaline’ to search for the answers. “ Does she likes me?” “ I hope she does!”
Maybe that’s why I didn’t do well at school…I guess. But hey, guys are like that. The only thing that we can think of at that time is girls,sports,recess time(so that we can talk to more girls), food, wrestling,football, pick up some fights with other boys (that’s when we get bored,or a girl that we like pass by us..)
Alright,lets focus and get back into the topic. How to know if a girl likes you? Here are 20 signs that I know of…
If she likes you…
See it from her body language, how she moves and what message her body is sending to you…
She smiles a lot when she’s with you…
Here’s the deal,although this is a clear sign that another person is enjoying another person’s company, just take it as an initial sign.Not more than that. Theres a high percentage that she likes you and she smiles because she’s happy when you are around but theres also a chance that she just a smiley person and smiles a lot
anytime. So don’t get your hopes to high yet.
She plays with her hair, adjusting her clothes, fiddling her straw in her drink, she’ll start blushing…
If she goes into this kind of signs, you can get your hopes on because this sign is pretty clear that she likes you. Also known as the ‘butterfly’ effects. The reason she did that subconsciously is because she wants to make she looks good and want you to be attracted.That is why she played with her hair, adjusted her clothes,look into her compact mirror..altough I’m not sure what she means when she’s playing with her straw in her drink.(a sign of “buy me another drink?” maybe?)
She will slightly leans her upper body towards you It’s a sign that says “ I’m interested and I want to know more”. This sign is not going to be easily noticeable be sure to watch closely. When I say watch her upper body,I mean look at her posture, not her chest.
She touches you while you are talking or teasing her.Alright,this differentiates across cultures but it’s a general rule. Constantly tapping your shoulder when you make her laugh or tease her indicates that she is comfortable with you and don’t mind having a physical contact with you.
She winks at you
Alright by far, this is the most powerful weapon a girl has. And if she winks at you, then she really wants to you to make a move or she’s the flirtatious type of girl that winks to almost every guy she came across. In that case, too bad for you buddy.Oh yea, just in case, when she winks, do ‘double check’ if you are really the one she winked at. You don’t want to look like a fool when she said “not you pal” when you approached her.
She'll behave like a spoiled child
You can see this as her secret weapon too. You know, that baby sound she’ll make to get you to do something or whatever it is that she wants. For example if she wants to go shopping and you said no, she’ll be saying in childish cutest way “please, I really wanna go,please,lets go, please dear”. You’ll go anyway.
She'll laugh at your jokes...even you stop doing one
You made her laugh with your jokes. That’s pretty normal but if she laugh even after you don’t intend to have any humor in it, it’s a
sign that she’s enjoying you and she’s happy with whatever that comes out your mouth.
She walks past by you(back and fourth)
If she does this, theres a high chance it is not a coincidence. Maybe it’s a way for her to get noticed by you. She’s throwing herself out and hopefully she’ll create the opportunity for you to approach her. Now, you don’t want to waste that opportunity given,don’t you?
She smiles the moment you make eye contact with her
I do mention above about she smiles a lot is a sign but do notice the timing of her smile. If she smiles as soon as you look at her it makes a lot of difference if she took some time to do it. And also, watch your zipper, that’s another reason for her to smile instantly at you. Yikes!
She cant focus her sight on you-her eyes looks around
What I mean is when you’re talking to her ,you’ll notice that she tries to look at you but because of her ‘butterfly’ effects, she’ll be shy enough to look at you straight in the eyes.
See it from the way she behaves, what are her reactions and what she did to show to you that she likes you…
She responds well to your comment
When a person likes you, most probably that person will agree on your comments. It can also be the other way around too, like she’ll disagree to your comments to test you or just to keep the conversation interesting.
She’ll asks where are you heading for the day
She’ll asks you where are heading, what are you doing, whats your plan, etc. It is a way for her to feel connected to your daily routines and probably to know where and when to ‘bump’ into you and says “hey,what a coincidence! What are you doing here?”. Shish! That’s a little bit cliché, don’t you think?
She’ll introduce you and probably your friends to her friends.
She wants to connect you with her inner circle social circle. Knowing you is not enough, she wants to know who you befriends with, and tries to connect it with her friends. It’s a way for her to get close to your social life.
She’ll shares a lot of personal information with you
The sign is simple. She put her trust on you! Watch closely though, its also the same sign if you are falling into her friend zone. If you are not sure of this, abandon this sign.
She’ll asks for favors
Even something that she can do herself! She’ll ask you to teach calculus even though she never scores lower than A on monthly exams and you don’t even know how to spell ‘calculus’! Well, she doesn’t care about that, she just want to spend time with you.
She is taking initiative to start the conversation..and keeps it going
When talking to her, you’ll notice that she takes the effort to start the conversation and try to keep it going because she don’t want the talk to end. Sometimes to a point where she’ll repeat a question back just because she likes to hear your comments or they way you laugh.
She shows her concern towards you
You can really see this when the time you are sick or something (psst! go ahead and pretend that you are sick,see how she reacts) she’ll make sure you eat your medicines on time. Or she can get angry if you buy an ice-cream on a rainy day.
She’ll digg your background from others
If she likes you, she wants to know more about you. And she don’t mind doing the espionage work of digging some facts about you like where you hang outs, what’s your favorite color, who you go out lately, what music you listen to, etc. Her method of digging: Your facebook profile,your blog,your friends blog to see if you left a comment there,your relationship status on Friendster, asking your friends about you…and the list goes on.
She will not miss the opportunity to give you gifts
She’ll remember everything. She prepare gifts weeks before your actual birthday. And you can see it from her gifts too, it really tells how much effort she pours in it. And that’s a sign.
She'll gives you cute nickname
This is like a must for a girl to do if they like something.By ‘something’ I mean everything including her laptop, her stuffs, her clothes, her pets, her teddy bears, her towels, you. Expect a nickname that will challenge your ego. Don’t expect her to nickname you ‘Strong Macho’ or something. Expect something less manly like…‘fluffy’.
So,there you go the top 20 signs to see if a girl likes you. I’m no expert so im pretty sure that the list is way longer than this. Why don’t you help me out by leaving me a comment below.
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